If you have been a victim of Geoff Bacon, Orlando Florida, please send me a message. We believe there may be hundreds of woman out there that he has ripped off, taken advantage of and is making a living off of.
Give facts, NOT just accusations! If you know for a fact, then give dates and names and he will be investigated. The more information available, the greater chance of PROOF!
BEWARE of this man...if you allow it, he will live off you and suck you dry!! Claim he loves you, while he is telling others the same things and blame everything that is wrong in your relationship on YOU!!
He is a 5'9", bold 58 year old African American man. He has a mustache and a gray hairy chest. He is originally from Chicago but has been living in Florida (mainly the Orlando area) for at least 20 years. He has 2 adult children even though he claims 3 children and grandchildren. He has been divorced at least 2 times and has family living in Ft Lauderdale area. He is awfully charming to the ladies and controlling. He is a big time liar and conniving.
Please tell me more...what did he do exactly? He has contacted me recently wanting to get back together. I met him about four years ago and had no issues with him but we lost contact. He said he moved out of the area - out of the country but is now back in Orlando. He is bald and now has a gray mustache and goatee. Is this the same man???
Good for you judy. but he didn't need to be deceptive and a total cheater, which was ALWAYS my number one deal breaker if he wanted you cool. He should have been honest.
Me to judy, I asked him point blank Saturday who you were. Bcuz of what you blogged. I only even looked here because he told me about it.,but at that point the comments were removed. until Fri sat and sun. Saturday he said he didn't need to clarify who you were. But I knew something was up. I asked him.
Sincerely, if I knew he had the other ladies, that would have done it for me. Let alone you, who I have nothing against. . I never would have even agreed to a meet at starbucks.
I honestly don't know the reason.
Good question to ask him. After he pointed out the blog, he said not to pay attention to it.
I know this was very clear that cheating was a total deal Breaker. When I got home from his place Saturday morning, I started seeing your real time blogs,, then it made sense, I emailed him the blog and said basically everything he said not 24 hours earlier was a lie. Obviously, he's with you.
I also had no idea that was his ex wife there at the house, until you told me. That freaked me out. If I had known that I would have left immediately and never been with him again.
Judy, do yourself a favor and set-up for this blog to notify you if anyone posts. That's how I found out that what I suspected about him was true. If anyone tries to look him up on the internet this is the only thing they will find so, if he starts cheating sooner or later you will be alerted the same way I was when you posted on this site. Best of luck to you.
Judy, do yourself a favor and set-up for this blog to notify you if anyone posts. That's how I found out that what I suspected about him was true. If anyone tries to look him up on the internet this is the only thing they will find so, if he starts cheating sooner or later you will be alerted the same way I was when you posted on this site. Best of luck to you.
It seems that Mr. Bacon just can't help himself. I had been in a relationship with Geoff since the end of January 2015. We would have coffee at Starbucks every Saturday morning. Tuesday night was movie night, and yes, I've even been to the house that he is living in with his ex-wife Donna, children and grandchildren. Have been there for cookouts and dinner, several times. I just ended the relationship with Geoff on May 8, 2015, when he would not explain this blog to me. But he said that the women on here were all liars and just wanted to ruin our relationship. He emailed me on May 9th stating how he missed having our Saturday morning coffee together. And on May 10th wishing me a happy Mother's Day. Mr. Bacon is sick. He is a predator. And I would advise all women to stay away from him. It appears that he has been quite busy seeing anywhere from 3 or more women at the same time. Oh, and did I say that he is a liar?
Good morning. Yes, the tues. Movie night, Starbucks usually tues,wed,thur, Your time frame is the exact time I was involved. He wished me a happy mother's day as Well. We never actually went anywhere. His pattern with me was during the day. Util 3 weeks ago I told him I didn't join a dating sitE to spend weekends alone. I ended it. He would text me begging and saying he was dying in pain without me. He told me he had MS and that is why he would be unavailable because he would be sick.
The next week I agreed to see him. Judy that week you were here, and as we know from Friday on this blog has blown up..
Ladies, we don't know each other,but I appreciate this blog, it makes me sick that he took advantage of me especially since it just lost my son.
Here is what, I'm grateful to know this. We all deserve better than a man who whores himself to women to use them like a rolodex.
I don't care how good he was in the sak...he is not worth it. The great part is since I stopped dealing with him, my dating life has blown up.
Thanks so much ladies, you saved me from what could have been a devastating mistake.
I certainly would say my instincts did not let me down.
Always always listen to that gut feeling. . It never fails and even if what you see is one way ,but you feel something is amiss. Find out. Have faith in yourself.
We are valuable women, meant to be respected and cherished. This situation was neither of those.
He obviously has Zero respect for women, he has no moral compass. And if a man's word is his bond..
He has bonded out....
I'm so much happier without all hs vague up down emotional bs. .
He was seeing four of us at the same time and I think there are still more. If you look at the time frames he plugged us into, I was week night only. He has to be getting money from somewhere and it's not from a job. He has no active business's on the state site so the odds are good he is getting at least some of his money from the women he is using. Which means there are more of us out there right now!
We all need to leave our comments to help those who will inevitably come after us and God Bless the woman who started this blog!!! I hope any of you reading this will do as I have done and notify match.com, they own most of the dating site he is using, and alert them to this sexual predator and give the the link for this blog. Hopefully we can ban him from those sites!! If I could figure out how to post his pic on here I would. Those poor children should not be exposed to what is going on in that home either! Neither Him, or the drug use that he claims is just there for his son's metal health.
Hi ladies. I want to thank you for being so vigilant posting to this blog. I also am very thankful to the person that started it. I am pleased to know that you intend not to remove your comments. This is a tool that is available to warn other women about this sexual predator. Thank you also for notifying the dating sites about this predator. I meet him on Our Time. Reallyupset I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son - May God bless you. I am also sad that those children are having to live in that toxic environment. I must say that I also feel PITY for Geoff and hope that he get help for his mental illness very soon. It can't be easy being a full-time career sexual predator. Can you imagine how exhausting that must be? On second thought - he don't have a job so he has the time. Ladies, and I mean all ladies that have come into contact with this predator - please get tested. Even if your activities only included kissing, get tested. A sexual predator lacks empathy, so Geoff does not care what happens to you, so you will have to care what happens to you.
I was with Geoff from last May 2014 till end of December, spent Christmas eve with him and his family/friends. Christmas day we had a fight, well lets say I just walked out. Have been seeing him off and on since, mostly off. I kept holding back in this relationship, I knew something was off, even confronted him with this blog a few times. He always made me feel small, everything was my fault, like I needed help. Being in the medical field I knew better. For a man of God, I hope God can forgive him. I feel sorry for the grandkids most. I haven't checked this blog for awhile and was blown away, wish I had seen all the posts. I just texted him this morning about all this, no response yet. Well, when your over look for a beautiful fleece blanket, I made for him for Christmas. Woman deserve to be treated with respect and dignity.Take care of you first, listen to what your head is telling your heart :)
I appreciate your post. Trust me I would never be over there again.. I'm sorry he did that to you. I lost my son March 31st, Geoff did this mess to me during this ime. I had a memorial for my son yesterday.
To take advantage at a time like that, is evil.
WE ARE NOT ALL LYING OR CRAZY. NOR WOULD I DO THIS BLOG BECAUSE I WANTED TO WRECK A RELATIONSHIP. HE'S WRECKED MANY. He made me feel small to. Until I told him off.
I appreciate your post. Trust me I would never be over there again.. I'm sorry he did that to you. I lost my son March 31st, Geoff did this mess to me during this ime. I had a memorial for my son yesterday.
To take advantage at a time like that, is evil.
WE ARE NOT ALL LYING OR CRAZY. NOR WOULD I DO THIS BLOG BECAUSE I WANTED TO WRECK A RELATIONSHIP. HE'S WRECKED MANY. He made me feel small to. Until I told him off.
To Reallyupset - you have every reason to feel the way that you do. To Luvuggs - by your post and by my account that makes about 6 women that have had some kind of contact with Geoff this year thus far. And that is from just posting to this blog, I'm quite certain that there are more. This is amazing. Thank you for posting Luvuggs - the more exposure about this sexual predator, the more women can be warned.
With all of this blog activity lately one would think that Geoffrey Chandler Bacon (a/k/a sexual predator; a/k/a cruel, evil monster) would lay low for a while - but he wont. Today is Tuesday, so its movie night for some unsuspecting female. Most likely about 3 others during the rest of the week. Come Saturday morning Geoff will be at Starbucks with another. Saturday evening for cookout/dinner at his residence and later recline back to his bedroom, while Donna and his daughter silently allow this deviant behavior to play out around the children without protest.
And this vicious cycle of predatory prowess will continue as it has for so many years.
To Geoff - Since you are obviously not going to respond to texts or emails now that your perverted behavior is being exposed. You say that you have not read this blog, but I know that you have and still do. It is cruel what you are doing to good, decent, kind women. There are women out there that would welcome a man like you with open arms - they are called whores. You can even find them on certain websites. Seek out those kind of women and stop preying on good, kind, decent women. Because we are much, much too good for a predator like you and you are simply not deserving of us.
Really upset, again dear so, so sorry for your loss. The loss of your beautiful son that is, not the snake that wrapped it's self around your heart and squeezed your self esteem while calling it love. That is a loss to CELEBRATE.
Hi Ladies, just wanted to check to see how everyone is doing. Hoping your having a wonderful Memorial Day weekend. I have accepted my first date with a gentleman, so excited. I haven't gone out with anyone since I met Geoff a yr ago. Well, God bless all of you, and take care!!!!!!!!
I too have a date this weekend! Keep checking in ladies, I can't tell you how wonderfu it is to hear from all of you and knowing we are all on the way to true relationships.
Luvuggs and Warning. Great to hear you both have dates! I too have a date this weekend. I'ts comforting to check in and see how strong all of us are and to see us all finding our way to real relationships?
To LuvUggs - I'm having a wonderful Memorial Day weekend thus far. I am so happy to hear about your exciting date (I have one also) and I hope that things work out for you because you deserve to have a happy and wonderful life. God bless you and best wishes! :)
You are new what's your story with Geoff? He tries to get back with everyone up to the point that you force his hand with all of his lies. Once he knows you have totally found him out you are finally rid of him.
You are new what's your story with Geoff? He tries to get back with everyone up to the point that you force his hand with all of his lies. Once he knows you have totally found him out you are finally rid of him.
He tried getting us back together many times from jan to may well last week,he would always say he misses me, loves me.Until my last text and he responded Really(my name), I didn't answer back, haven't heard anything since. That's great with me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Happy Memorial day ladies!,, I'm so excited to hear you guys have dates, cuz I have to, met this guy wed. And we have been on 3 dates with number 4 on Tuesday. It's great. I was thinking how truly amazing we are all here with good news.
Well honestly im still in shock, so many ladys. He has blowed up my phone and text. I still dont know what to say. He knows i know about this site. He has ask me to forgive him.
Yes there are. I'm sure that like all of us you to are beautiful intelligent and have a lot to offer a man.
On mother's day , the blog blew up and I saw the truth. I felt just heartbroken. But honestly, I realized I'm worth more and it was really a blessing I saw this blog. I'm thankful because he wanted to be exclusive forever as one with me to and I bought it. How special could I have been if these other nice ladies were all being told the same thing? At the same time, same day even. There is life and a good man without Geoffrey Bacon. We are all finding them.
Yes there are. I'm sure that like all of us you to are beautiful intelligent and have a lot to offer a man.
On mother's day , the blog blew up and I saw the truth. I felt just heartbroken. But honestly, I realized I'm worth more and it was really a blessing I saw this blog. I'm thankful because he wanted to be exclusive forever as one with me to and I bought it. How special could I have been if these other nice ladies were all being told the same thing? At the same time, same day even. There is life and a good man without Geoffrey Bacon. We are all finding them.
I never saw her comments, so don't know what was going on there. He had asked me too, and we were if going to get our own place. He knew I would never move in that house. Exactly, God help her if she did!!!!!!!!!!
I've been wondering about Judy too but, I don't think she moved in. Geoff has given all of us that I love you I want us to live together line. He is not going to move anyone in unless they have money he is after. He uses his house on a daily basis to have sex with unsuspecting women, that would seriously cramp his style. Not all women are like Donna.
Judy s last comment was may 14th, she told me she was sorry about my son and that geoff had hurt me but that she had been with him for two years and he had asked her to move in with him. That was only 10 days ago.
Judy s last comment was may 14th, she told me she was sorry about my son and that geoff had hurt me but that she had been with him for two years and he had asked her to move in with him. That was only 10 days ago.
Shocked, Geoffrey is a sexual predator, he will say ANYTHING to keep you coming back. His apologies are as false as his love. He has been preying on unsuspecting women for years. I am sure he is telling you the same thing he told us about this site such as we are all liars just out to ruin your relationship or he was so lonely without you that he made a mistake but, your the one he really wants. Does any of that sound familiar? He is using you. That is why we are all leaving our posts up and checking this site, to help ALL of the many women still being preyed upon to escape.
Donna is a great person, she is the reason I wouldn't move in or barely stay there out of respect for her, he could never understand that. He thinks he is the King Gorilla, LOL, now I just laugh!!!!!!!! Even thou I hate coffee, we should all meet at starbucks and have a Good Riddens, well lets just have some wine, LOL
Your right we are not all lying.all meeting sounds fun oh the storys we could tell. Ill need a fue days notice as i live out of town. I know in my heart we are all butiful women. And so you all know when this came to lite and i seen him for what he is i got tested for everything on the list 8 days ago and ladys im proud to say its all good
Ladies, I would go with Geoff house hunting. This is part of the sick game that he seems to be playing with all the women he meet. To Shock - Don't believe anything that he tells you he is a master liar, and begging is all just a part of his game. He is just toying with you.
Please do write your situation onthis blog. Put the lies out there for those who come after to see. We owe to ourselves to do whatever we can to help others. Surprisingly this site has been so helpful in dealing with all of this. Being able to talk about this with other women who understand is priceless!
Yes, and look it's already working because we all knew there would be many more. Can anyone educate me on this ex wife living there..he never told me it was his ex . I heard he was deeply hurt by his ex. But she was actually living there.. Haha !
Yes, and look it's already working because we all knew there would be many more. Can anyone educate me on this ex wife living there..he never told me it was his ex . I heard he was deeply hurt by his ex. But she was actually living there.. Haha !
Please do write your situation onthis blog. Put the lies out there for those who come after to see. We owe to ourselves to do whatever we can to help others. Surprisingly this site has been so helpful in dealing with all of this. Being able to talk about this with other women who understand is priceless!
Donna is his first ex-wife. He had a second that divorced his behind in less than a year of marriage. She filed a domestic violence injunction against him about 7 months after they were married and filed for divorce 3 months later. This was in 2011. Ironically, she married him 3 months after this blog was first published. I guess she did see it.
OMG I am laughing my ass off about the Gorilla!!!!!!!!!!!! Yes, we have to figure out a time and day we can meet for lunch/wine!!!!!! I think we would have a blast, and it would be good for us!!!!!!!!!!
My time is flexible. Wow one thing you don't know is I personally survived domestic violence with my ex husband. Three neck fusions, titananium plate and wires. I told geoff my rule was no beaters or cheaters.
I feel even luckier now, hearing about the domestic violence. However, by definition what he did was abuse. Which explains why I had inner conflict about him and didn't know why.
Would like to know who wrote this and why? and when?
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DeleteI would like more information on this man.
ReplyDeleteGive facts, NOT just accusations!
ReplyDeleteIf you know for a fact, then give dates and names and he will be investigated. The more information available, the greater chance of PROOF!
BEWARE of this man...if you allow it, he will live off you and suck you dry!! Claim he loves you, while he is telling others the same things and blame everything that is wrong in your relationship on YOU!!
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DeleteAre you one of the latest victims or are you still with him?
ReplyDeleteCan you give more info on Mr. Bacon
ReplyDeleteWhat exactly do you want to know about Mr. Bacon?
ReplyDeleteWhat does this man look like, and how old is he?
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ReplyDeletedo you know what he looks like?
Deletecan someone describe this man? please
ReplyDeleteHe is a 5'9", bold 58 year old African American man. He has a mustache and a gray hairy chest. He is originally from Chicago but has been living in Florida (mainly the Orlando area) for at least 20 years. He has 2 adult children even though he claims 3 children and grandchildren. He has been divorced at least 2 times and has family living in Ft Lauderdale area. He is awfully charming to the ladies and controlling. He is a big time liar and conniving.
ReplyDeletePlease tell me more...what did he do exactly? He has contacted me recently wanting to get back together. I met him about four years ago and had no issues with him but we lost contact. He said he moved out of the area - out of the country but is now back in Orlando. He is bald and now has a gray mustache and goatee. Is this the same man???
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ReplyDeleteGood for you judy. but he didn't need to be deceptive and a total cheater, which was ALWAYS my number one deal breaker if he wanted you cool. He should have been honest.
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ReplyDeleteMe to judy, I asked him point blank Saturday who you were. Bcuz of what you blogged. I only even looked here because he told me about it.,but at that point the comments were removed. until Fri sat and sun. Saturday he said he didn't need to clarify who you were. But I knew something was up. I asked him.
DeleteSincerely, if I knew he had the other ladies, that would have done it for me. Let alone you, who I have nothing against. . I never would have even agreed to a meet at starbucks.
I honestly don't know the reason.
Good question to ask him. After he pointed out the blog, he said not to pay attention to it.
I know this was very clear that cheating was a total deal Breaker. When I got home from his place Saturday morning, I started seeing your real time blogs,, then it made sense, I emailed him the blog and said basically everything he said not 24 hours earlier was a lie. Obviously, he's with you.
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ReplyDeleteI also had no idea that was his ex wife there at the house, until you told me. That freaked me out.
ReplyDeleteIf I had known that I would have left immediately and never been with him again.
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ReplyDeletedo yourself a favor and set-up for this blog to notify you if anyone posts. That's how I found out that what I suspected about him was true. If anyone tries to look him up on the internet this is the only thing they will find so, if he starts cheating sooner or later you will be alerted the same way I was when you posted on this site. Best of luck to you.
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ReplyDeletedo yourself a favor and set-up for this blog to notify you if anyone posts. That's how I found out that what I suspected about him was true. If anyone tries to look him up on the internet this is the only thing they will find so, if he starts cheating sooner or later you will be alerted the same way I was when you posted on this site. Best of luck to you.
It seems that Mr. Bacon just can't help himself. I had been in a relationship with Geoff since the end of January 2015. We would have coffee at Starbucks every Saturday morning. Tuesday night was movie night, and yes, I've even been to the house that he is living in with his ex-wife Donna, children and grandchildren. Have been there for cookouts and dinner, several times. I just ended the relationship with Geoff on May 8, 2015, when he would not explain this blog to me. But he said that the women on here were all liars and just wanted to ruin our relationship. He emailed me on May 9th stating how he missed having our Saturday morning coffee together. And on May 10th wishing me a happy Mother's Day. Mr. Bacon is sick. He is a predator. And I would advise all women to stay away from him. It appears that he has been quite busy seeing anywhere from 3 or more women at the same time. Oh, and did I say that he is a liar?
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DeleteGood morning. Yes, the tues. Movie night, Starbucks usually tues,wed,thur, Your time frame is the exact time I was involved. He wished me a happy mother's day as Well. We never actually went anywhere. His pattern with me was during the day. Util 3 weeks ago I told him I didn't join a dating sitE to spend weekends alone. I ended it. He would text me begging and saying he was dying in pain without me. He told me he had MS and that is why he would be unavailable because he would be sick.
DeleteThe next week I agreed to see him. Judy that week you were here, and as we know from Friday on this blog has blown up..
Ladies, we don't know each other,but I appreciate this blog, it makes me sick that he took advantage of me especially since it just lost my son.
Here is what, I'm grateful to know this. We all deserve better than a man who whores himself to women to use them like a rolodex.
I don't care how good he was in the sak...he is not worth it.
The great part is since I stopped dealing with him, my dating life has blown up.
Thanks so much ladies, you saved me from what could have been a devastating mistake.
I certainly would say my instincts did not let me down.
Always always listen to that gut feeling. . It never fails and even if what you see is one way ,but you feel something is amiss. Find out. Have faith in yourself.
We are valuable women, meant to be respected and cherished. This situation was neither of those.
He obviously has Zero respect for women, he has no moral compass. And if a man's word is his bond..
He has bonded out....
I'm so much happier without all hs vague up down emotional bs. .
He was seeing four of us at the same time and I think there are still more. If you look at the time frames he plugged us into, I was week night only. He has to be getting money from somewhere and it's not from a job. He has no active business's on the state site so the odds are good he is getting at least some of his money from the women he is using. Which means there are more of us out there right now!
ReplyDeleteI agree. I personally never gave nor would have given him money, but I recently came into an inheritance, which he knew about.
DeleteI think there are as many of us in separate time slots as their are hours in a day.
I'm leaving my comments because I want the other girls to see it.
karma is a mother, he better duck.
I agree. I personally never gave nor would have given him money, but I recently came into an inheritance, which he knew about.
DeleteI think there are as many of us in separate time slots as their are hours in a day.
I'm leaving my comments because I want the other girls to see it.
karma is a mother, he better duck.
I agree. I personally never gave nor would have given him money, but I recently came into an inheritance, which he knew about.
DeleteI think there are as many of us in separate time slots as their are hours in a day.
I'm leaving my comments because I want the other girls to see it.
karma is a mother, he better duck.
We all need to leave our comments to help those who will inevitably come after us and God Bless the woman who started this blog!!! I hope any of you reading this will do as I have done and notify match.com, they own most of the dating site he is using, and alert them to this sexual predator and give the the link for this blog. Hopefully we can ban him from those sites!! If I could figure out how to post his pic on here I would.
ReplyDeleteThose poor children should not be exposed to what is going on in that home either! Neither Him, or the drug use that he claims is just there for his son's metal health.
Yes and we should all get tested. really
DeleteYes and we should all get tested. really
DeleteOh God!, your right. What a frightening thought.
ReplyDeleteHi ladies. I want to thank you for being so vigilant posting to this blog. I also am very thankful to the person that started it. I am pleased to know that you intend not to remove your comments. This is a tool that is available to warn other women about this sexual predator. Thank you also for notifying the dating sites about this predator. I meet him on Our Time. Reallyupset I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son - May God bless you. I am also sad that those children are having to live in that toxic environment. I must say that I also feel PITY for Geoff and hope that he get help for his mental illness very soon. It can't be easy being a full-time career sexual predator. Can you imagine how exhausting that must be? On second thought - he don't have a job so he has the time. Ladies, and I mean all ladies that have come into contact with this predator - please get tested. Even if your activities only included kissing, get tested. A sexual predator lacks empathy, so Geoff does not care what happens to you, so you will have to care what happens to you.
ReplyDeleteI was with Geoff from last May 2014 till end of December, spent Christmas eve with him and his family/friends. Christmas day we had a fight, well lets say I just walked out. Have been seeing him off and on since, mostly off. I kept holding back in this relationship, I knew something was off, even confronted him with this blog a few times. He always made me feel small, everything was my fault, like I needed help. Being in the medical field I knew better. For a man of God, I hope God can forgive him. I feel sorry for the grandkids most. I haven't checked this blog for awhile and was blown away, wish I had seen all the posts. I just texted him this morning about all this, no response yet. Well, when your over look for a beautiful fleece blanket, I made for him for Christmas. Woman deserve to be treated with respect and dignity.Take care of you first, listen to what your head is telling your heart :)
ReplyDeleteI appreciate your post. Trust me I would never be over there again.. I'm sorry he did that to you. I lost my son March 31st, Geoff did this mess to me during this ime. I had a memorial for my son yesterday.
DeleteTo take advantage at a time like that, is evil.
WE ARE NOT ALL LYING OR CRAZY. NOR WOULD I DO THIS BLOG BECAUSE I WANTED TO WRECK A RELATIONSHIP. HE'S WRECKED MANY.
He made me feel small to. Until I told him off.
NEVER IGNORE YOUR INNER VOICE TELLING YOU TO RUN.
You ladies are the best. We all can't be liars.
I appreciate your post. Trust me I would never be over there again.. I'm sorry he did that to you. I lost my son March 31st, Geoff did this mess to me during this ime. I had a memorial for my son yesterday.
DeleteTo take advantage at a time like that, is evil.
WE ARE NOT ALL LYING OR CRAZY. NOR WOULD I DO THIS BLOG BECAUSE I WANTED TO WRECK A RELATIONSHIP. HE'S WRECKED MANY.
He made me feel small to. Until I told him off.
NEVER IGNORE YOUR INNER VOICE TELLING YOU TO RUN.
You ladies are the best. We all can't be liars.
Dear Reallyupset, I am so sorry for your loss, my deepest sympathies, may God wrap you in his arms tight!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much. My heart is broken in a million pieces.
DeleteTo Reallyupset - you have every reason to feel the way that you do. To Luvuggs - by your post and by my account that makes about 6 women that have had some kind of contact with Geoff this year thus far. And that is from just posting to this blog, I'm quite certain that there are more. This is amazing. Thank you for posting Luvuggs - the more exposure about this sexual predator, the more women can be warned.
ReplyDeleteWith all of this blog activity lately one would think that Geoffrey Chandler Bacon (a/k/a sexual predator; a/k/a cruel, evil monster) would lay low for a while - but he wont. Today is Tuesday, so its movie night for some unsuspecting female. Most likely about 3 others during the rest of the week. Come Saturday morning Geoff will be at Starbucks with another. Saturday evening for cookout/dinner at his residence and later recline back to his bedroom, while Donna and his daughter silently allow this deviant behavior to play out around the children without protest.
And this vicious cycle of predatory prowess will continue as it has for so many years.
To Geoff - Since you are obviously not going to respond to texts or emails now that your perverted behavior is being exposed. You say that you have not read this blog, but I know that you have and still do. It is cruel what you are doing to good, decent, kind women. There are women out there that would welcome a man like you with open arms - they are called whores. You can even find them on certain websites. Seek out those kind of women and stop preying on good, kind, decent women. Because we are much, much too good for a predator like you and you are simply not deserving of us.
Karma is a bitch Geoff and yours is coming in spades!!
ReplyDeleteReally upset, again dear so, so sorry for your loss. The loss of your beautiful son that is, not the snake that wrapped it's self around your heart and squeezed your self esteem while calling it love. That is a loss to CELEBRATE.
ReplyDeleteHi Ladies, just wanted to check to see how everyone is doing. Hoping your having a wonderful Memorial Day weekend. I have accepted my first date with a gentleman, so excited. I haven't gone out with anyone since I met Geoff a yr ago. Well, God bless all of you, and take care!!!!!!!!
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DeleteI too have a date this weekend! Keep checking in ladies, I can't tell you how wonderfu it is to hear from all of you and knowing we are all on the way to true relationships.
DeleteLuvuggs and Warning. Great to hear you both have dates! I too have a date this weekend. I'ts comforting to check in and see how strong all of us are and to see us all finding our way to real relationships?
DeleteTo LuvUggs - I'm having a wonderful Memorial Day weekend thus far. I am so happy to hear about your exciting date (I have one also) and I hope that things work out for you because you deserve to have a happy and wonderful life. God bless you and best wishes! :)
ReplyDeleteGreat to hear that we all have a date this weekend. Strong, beautiful and wonderful, that's all of us! Happy Memorial Day ladies.
DeleteHow many of you ladys is he trying to get back with?
ReplyDeleteYou are new what's your story with Geoff?
DeleteHe tries to get back with everyone up to the point that you force his hand with all of his lies. Once he knows you have totally found him out you are finally rid of him.
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DeleteYou are new what's your story with Geoff?
DeleteHe tries to get back with everyone up to the point that you force his hand with all of his lies. Once he knows you have totally found him out you are finally rid of him.
He tried getting us back together many times from jan to may well last week,he would always say he misses me, loves me.Until my last text and he responded Really(my name), I didn't answer back, haven't heard anything since. That's great with me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteHappy Memorial day ladies!,, I'm so excited to hear you guys have dates, cuz I have to, met this guy wed. And we have been on 3 dates with number 4 on Tuesday. It's great. I was thinking how truly amazing we are all here with good news.
ReplyDeleteWell honestly im still in shock, so many ladys. He has blowed up my phone and text. I still dont know what to say. He knows i know about this site. He has ask me to forgive him.
ReplyDeleteWith the distance between us, I could've forgiven if it was just 1 but my goodness there are so many of you number
ReplyDeleteYes there are. I'm sure that like all of us you to are beautiful intelligent and have a lot to offer a man.
ReplyDeleteOn mother's day , the blog blew up and I saw the truth.
I felt just heartbroken. But honestly, I realized I'm worth more and it was really a blessing I saw this blog.
I'm thankful because he wanted to be exclusive forever as one with me to and I bought it. How special could I have been if these other nice ladies were all being told the same thing? At the same time, same day even.
There is life and a good man without Geoffrey Bacon. We are all finding them.
You deserve better, I couldn't even overlook one.
Yes there are. I'm sure that like all of us you to are beautiful intelligent and have a lot to offer a man.
ReplyDeleteOn mother's day , the blog blew up and I saw the truth.
I felt just heartbroken. But honestly, I realized I'm worth more and it was really a blessing I saw this blog.
I'm thankful because he wanted to be exclusive forever as one with me to and I bought it. How special could I have been if these other nice ladies were all being told the same thing? At the same time, same day even.
There is life and a good man without Geoffrey Bacon. We are all finding them.
You deserve better, I couldn't even overlook one.
I just happened to think about Judy. I wonder how she s. Her last comment said she was moving in with geoff.
ReplyDeleteGod I hope she didn't.
I just happened to think about Judy. I wonder how she s. Her last comment said she was moving in with geoff.
ReplyDeleteGod I hope she didn't.
I never saw her comments, so don't know what was going on there. He had asked me too, and we were if going to get our own place. He knew I would never move in that house. Exactly, God help her if she did!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteI dont think she is that stupid.
DeleteI've been wondering about Judy too but, I don't think she moved in. Geoff has given all of us that I love you I want us to live together line. He is not going to move anyone in unless they have money he is after. He uses his house on a daily basis to have sex with unsuspecting women, that would seriously cramp his style. Not all women are like Donna.
ReplyDeleteJudy s last comment was may 14th, she told me she was sorry about my son and that geoff had hurt me but that she had been with him for two years and he had asked her to move in with him. That was only 10 days ago.
ReplyDeleteJudy s last comment was may 14th, she told me she was sorry about my son and that geoff had hurt me but that she had been with him for two years and he had asked her to move in with him. That was only 10 days ago.
ReplyDeleteI have wasted years with this man. Yes i have wised up. I so wish i could send you all his lies that he wrights.
ReplyDeleteTo be honest i think donna started this blog. She is a good person. And is sick of his crap to.
ReplyDeleteShocked, Geoffrey is a sexual predator, he will say ANYTHING to keep you coming back. His apologies are as false as his love. He has been preying on unsuspecting women for years. I am sure he is telling you the same thing he told us about this site such as we are all liars just out to ruin your relationship or he was so lonely without you that he made a mistake but, your the one he really wants. Does any of that sound familiar? He is using you. That is why we are all leaving our posts up and checking this site, to help ALL of the many women still being preyed upon to escape.
ReplyDeleteDonna is a great person, she is the reason I wouldn't move in or barely stay there out of respect for her, he could never understand that. He thinks he is the King Gorilla, LOL, now I just laugh!!!!!!!! Even thou I hate coffee, we should all meet at starbucks and have a Good Riddens, well lets just have some wine, LOL
ReplyDeleteAnd i love you all dearly for the support. I came so close to giving in.
DeleteYour right we are not all lying.all meeting sounds fun oh the storys we could tell. Ill need a fue days notice as i live out of town. I know in my heart we are all butiful women. And so you all know when this came to lite and i seen him for what he is i got tested for everything on the list 8 days ago and ladys im proud to say its all good
DeleteLuvUggs I'm with you I would love to meet all of you.
DeleteI think we all should. As well ill need to know in Advance so i can get there. I would not miss it for the world.
DeleteLadies, I would go with Geoff house hunting. This is part of the sick game that he seems to be playing with all the women he meet. To Shock - Don't believe anything that he tells you he is a master liar, and begging is all just a part of his game. He is just toying with you.
ReplyDeleteI went with him to look at the home hes in now
DeletePlease do write your situation onthis blog. Put the lies out there for those who come after to see. We owe to ourselves to do whatever we can to help others. Surprisingly this site has been so helpful in dealing with all of this. Being able to talk about this with other women who understand is priceless!
ReplyDeleteYes, and look it's already working because we all knew there would be many more.
ReplyDeleteCan anyone educate me on this ex wife living there..he never told me it was his ex . I heard he was deeply hurt by his ex. But she was actually living there.. Haha !
He told me he and Donna had just grown apart and it was his second wife, the one who divorced him in 2013 that hurt him so badly.
DeleteThats a lie he cheeted on her to.
Deletehe told me that Donna had cheated on him
DeleteI don't doubt that for a second! Maybe we should reach out to Donna as well, heaven knows she too could probably use someone to talk to!
DeleteYes, and look it's already working because we all knew there would be many more.
ReplyDeleteCan anyone educate me on this ex wife living there..he never told me it was his ex . I heard he was deeply hurt by his ex. But she was actually living there.. Haha !
Please do write your situation onthis blog. Put the lies out there for those who come after to see. We owe to ourselves to do whatever we can to help others. Surprisingly this site has been so helpful in dealing with all of this. Being able to talk about this with other women who understand is priceless!
ReplyDeleteI would love to meet up with all of you beautiful ladies for wine (I don't really care for coffee either) and conversation. It would be fun!
ReplyDeleteOkay so when and where ladies? It's amazing how close you can feel to a group of people you have never met!
DeleteIs there any way to private message here i so want to tell reallyupset something in privat
DeleteI don't think so. You could give your gmail address and then erase your comment once she contacts you.
DeleteI love that idea.!, I heard that "gorilla" reference to. Lol.
ReplyDeleteLol me to
DeleteDid'nt we all!
DeleteDonna is his first ex-wife. He had a second that divorced his behind in less than a year of marriage. She filed a domestic violence injunction against him about 7 months after they were married and filed for divorce 3 months later. This was in 2011. Ironically, she married him 3 months after this blog was first published. I guess she did see it.
ReplyDeleteOMG I am laughing my ass off about the Gorilla!!!!!!!!!!!! Yes, we have to figure out a time and day we can meet for lunch/wine!!!!!! I think we would have a blast, and it would be good for us!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteI do agree lets do it. Maybe he will show up with a new woman lol
DeleteI know I am off this coming wed and thurs, and work the weekend, not sure for next week yet
ReplyDeleteI work until 5:00p So it would have to be after that. Thursday is good for me as well, but any day as long as it is after 5:00p.
ReplyDeleteI'm in lakeland and get off at 5 it takes 1/2 hour for me to get to orlando. Where are the rest of you at?
ReplyDeleteI'm in Orlando.
ReplyDeleteMy time is flexible. Wow one thing you don't know is I personally survived domestic violence with my ex husband. Three neck fusions, titananium plate and wires.
ReplyDeleteI told geoff my rule was no beaters or cheaters.
I feel even luckier now, hearing about the domestic violence. However, by definition what he did was abuse. Which explains why I had inner conflict about him and didn't know why.
If you would like to come here I would be delighted to host our get together. I live right off I-4 so my house is easy to get to.
ReplyDeleteI'm in the Conroy windemere area . Near millenia, kirkman, I drive area.
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